Foreeeeeever reblog. And adding it to my ideal tab.
To me, this is the most important part of BDSM. Someone who understands sees you. He sees the struggle, the tears, the doubts, the walls you try to break down. He makes you miserable, he hurts and humiliates you. And then, you see it in his eyes. The mixture of pride, happiness, satisfaction, but most of all: he understands.