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“In a Taken In Hand relationship, spanking and other means of physical force are not about ‘correction’ but rather about dominance. That is, it’s about might – not right. A man doesn’t have to be right in order to dominate a woman; and if she’s right and he’s wrong about something, that does not mean that she’s dominating him. I might get into a reasoned debate with my dominant man and win, for example; and if he has any integrity as a man then I’d expect him to be willing to admit it when he’s proven wrong. But he still has the sheer masculine strength to overpower me in any physical contest – and to me, that’s what the dominance aspect is all about.”