Let’s Sit And Talk About Courtesy
Ladies. Men. When you are in charge of making plans you do what ever the fuck you need to do to be there (barring any extreme physical/mental distress).
Example. I got asked out last weekend to go on a date tonight.
Last night said date asker had her birthday.
Got hammered.
I threw out a “hey how you feeling?” text this morning around 10am.
What I really meant was “hey, you remember we had plans and I know you are an adult and couldn’t possibly have gotten so drunk that you would be hungover at 8pm right?”
Of course I got a “I’m not feeling so well” text. Followed by “I want to see you. I don’t like to go back on my word. Would you be willing to come to me?”.
No. No I would not be willing to go to you. Those weren’t the plans and you are hungover. I am not looking to deal with that.
So ladies and gentlemen alike. Here is a piece of advice:
Be responsible. You made plans, you do what you need to do to be there.
Why don’t I go out to her place you ask?
‘Cause that wasn’t the fucking deal.
Also, I was out till 2am on another awesome date last night and I am fucking exhausted so I honestly wouldn’t mind
- Saving some money
- Going to bed early
- Saving some money
Ladies, as you can tell I am not the most delicate with my words. How do I tell someone “No, I am not going to fucking babysit you when you’re hungover for our date” without telling them that?
I’m starting to like this guy.
